Is Sex ALL Guys Ever Think About?

Hot Mama Help Me!

Although there is so much evidence out there to the contrary, I still like to believe the best in people (even men), but I am starting to wonder if I have been misguided. I want to think that they are capable of being loving, intelligent, thoughtful, and caring partners... but to be honest, I think that LITERALLY ALL THEY THINK ABOUT IS SEX! The men at work, guys on the street, even guys that I thought were just my friends. (I know, I know... we have had this conversation a million times, guys can't be just friends with girls...) I don't know how women have done it for centuries. Everytime I am rewarded at work, or get out of a speeding ticket (or two), I never know if it is because of my winning personality or strictly based on my looks, and men's inability to keep it in their pants. I am starting to get frustrated and think that maybe it isn't possible for men to think about anything else. Help me Hot Mama. PLEASE tell me that I am wrong!
-Angry Eager Beaver

Eager Beaver,

Umm, yeah, sex is pretty much what most guys think about all the time whether they're working, grocery shopping, driving, minding the kids, changing their socks, mowing the lawn, golfing, eating pizza, sucking their thumb, etc., etc. It's appalling I know and for proof that Hot Mama isn't just talking out of her ass I'd like to refer you to this article in Elle...

http://www.elle.com/Life-Love/Sex-Relationships/They-Like-It-Like-That-Why-Every-Woman-is-Desirable

But before you despair of ever finding a worthy man (really worthy of a woman and all her inherent goodness) let me point out what AMAZING will power a committed man must have! I mean they're almost literally hampered by their brains and it's need to sexually assess every woman who crosses it's path. It's not that difficult for us because most of us don't look at a man and wonder what his penis looks like! Eww. And just because they may look at everything that comes into their line of sight doesn't mean they actually want it. Besides sex they also have a need for a loving relationship and family. So, the fact that men still propose and still get married, when it seems totally against their biological imperative, is really and truly impressive. Kudos to all the faithful guys out there, you have strength beyond imagination and truly are our heroes.
-Hot Mama